Being relaxed for your destination wedding… brides and grooms can stress about it 😊 and yet… We tell you more in this article
Being relaxed for your destination wedding… a myth?
Let’s put things down first…. Everyone is different. Some people are anxious by nature, while others take things as they come and as they happen. So I don’t think it’s possible to ask someone who’s anxious by nature not to stress about their wedding.
However, there are things that can be done to help with this. I’ll give you a few tips in this article based on the experience we’ve had at the chateau over the last ten years accompanying our brides and grooms.
But first of all, a small point… it’s normal for there to be a lot of emotions during the preparations for a wedding and on the big day. It’s about making a commitment, doing this in front of lots of people who have come especially for you, and an event, with responsibilities and a budget… so a little stress is perfectly normal, even for the most zen of you!
Tips on how to relax for your wedding in Provence
One of the first things to say is that there are lots of general relaxation methods that can also help during the run-up to a wedding.
The second thing to say is that to be as relaxed as possible for your wedding, well, you have to accept that a wedding is, whether you like it or not, a stressful event…. So accept the stress, don’t fight it, and it will pass more easily! In fact, a wedding is recognised by psychology professionals as one of the most stressful stages in life. So we stop thinking we’re wonderwoman and wonderboy and accept that things will sometimes be stressful. What’s more, we see what we can do to minimise this.
The third thing to say is that having good timing in your wedding preparations helps enormously, although you can also find wedding suppliers who can help you catch up.
What’s more, knowing exactly what you want helps you to feel relaxed about your wedding. Hesitation contributes to the development of anxiety. The clearer you are about your choices, the more likely you are to get straight to the point in your decisions and move forward at the right pace.
The last secret…
From what my brides and grooms have told me, the thing that helped them relax the most was having confidence in their suppliers. If you know you’ve got the right team of professionals for your wedding, you can let yourself be carried away by them on the big day. This is vital if you are to relax for your wedding. What’s more, these service providers will be able to advise you throughout your wedding preparations.
And the icing on the cake… is if you choose a team of service providers who are used to working together… then… on the big day, you can trust them and everything will run like clockwork while you enjoy the most beautiful day of your life!
In this article, I’ll be giving you some advice on how to select your suppliers. Happy reading!
